In multi-family housing every household keeps a private unit of its own, from 8-12 m² for one person to 20-30 m² for a family with children, and shares the costly or fuel-hungry facilities: the kitchen, bathing, laundry, storage and outdoor workspace. Sleeping space, toilets and personal storage stay private, because people need privacy for sleep, hygiene and their own belongings.

Shared and private spaces describe which parts of a multi-family home belong to one household and which are used in common.

Share What Costs Fuel And Labour; Keep What Needs Privacy

The rule in the multi-family guide is that sharing reduces per-family construction cost, but only for facilities where sharing does not cost dignity or health.

ShareWhyKeep privateWhy
Kitchen (one large hearth for 4-8 families)One fire, one chimney, one prep areaSleeping spaceSleep needs acoustic and visual privacy
Bathhouse with heated waterSaves water, fuel and spaceToilet (one composting toilet per family unit)Hygiene depends on personal responsibility
LaundryShared tubs, heat and drying linesPersonal storageSecure place for tools and belongings
Root cellar, granary, tool storageBulk storage costs less shared
Courtyard or porchWorkspace for food, crafts and company

The guide’s private unit minimums are 8-12 m² for one person, 12-16 m² for a couple and 20-30 m² for a family with children. These are minimums. A family unit of 25-35 m² with its own small hearth or stove is comfortable long-term (Private Family Units: Minimum Sizes).

What You Need

  • A list of households with sizes and any special needs
  • A fuel and water budget — sharing is justified by these
  • Agreement on upkeep for each shared space

Method

Step 1: Fix the private units first. Size them for the household and give each an outside door.

Step 2: Choose what to share from the table, starting with the kitchen and bathhouse.

Step 3: Place shared spaces where they can be reached under cover and, for the kitchen and heated rooms, at fire separation from sleeping spaces.

Step 4: Assign care. Name who cleans, stocks fuel and repairs each shared space (Community Roles).

Common Mistakes

  • Sharing sleeping space to save area.
  • Sharing a toilet between families — the guide says one per family unit.
  • Leaving shared spaces without an owner; they decay.

Safety

Shared heat and water need separation

A shared kitchen or bathhouse has an open fire. Keep it from sleeping rooms with a masonry wall and its own flue, and vent every fire to the outside; carbon monoxide kills sleepers before they wake.

What’s Next